Courtship AI

How it works

You share what is happening. It tells you honestly what it sees and gives you words to use. You decide, and you send.

  1. Tell it about youA five-minute conversation: who you are, what you want, how you text. It keeps a profile it shows you, and you can edit it.
  2. Share what is happeningScreenshot a match’s profile, a chat, or your own profile page. Paste or drop it in. Nothing to retype.
  3. Read the adviceWhere things stand with the evidence quoted, three replies in your voice, a briefing or a debrief. Each one is one read.
  4. Decide and sendCopy a reply, tweak it, or write your own. Send it yourself from the dating app. The coach never touches your accounts.
Illustration of screenshots being shared

What a read is

One read is one piece of advice: a profile review, a chat read with its three replies, three openers from a screenshot, a reply tweak, a date briefing, a debrief, a check-in summary or one coach message. A request that fails or is refused is never counted.

What it never does

  • Log in to a dating app
  • Send a message, like a profile or reply to anyone
  • Pretend to be you
  • Sell your data or show you ads
  • Judge the people you are talking to

How it learns your voice

From the way you answer the onboarding, a couple of texts you paste in, and what you keep or edit afterwards. Short or chatty, emoji or not, dry or warm: the replies follow you, not a template.

Where the advice comes from

A large language model, given your profile and the conversation, with instructions we wrote and test. It can be wrong. The evidence it quotes is there so you can check it. More on AI advice and safety.

Try it on a real chat

Seven days free, with reads to try it on. See whether it earns a place in your pocket.